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The LGBT Holiday Mailbag

Remembering transgender journalist Mike Penner/Christine Daniels

“F**ck Maine:” A Call for Civil Disobedience in the Fight for Marriage Equality

Who’s the gay manners guy? Let me say hello!

Straight Talk: Why does this guy at my office show off so many things that scream…

Can kids grow up “normal” in a gay home?

Are older gay men “cougars” or “daddies?”

When a straight guy asks a lesbian out?

Help for Valentine’s Day?

Help for drunken groping?

How to live with a closet case?

How to convince mom we won’t have sex in front of the kids?

When boyfriends disagree about where to spend the holidays?

Fighting off the not-so-gay holiday blues?

Deciding where to spend the holidays?

What happens when a straight guy spends the weekend with his four gay friends?

What’s a bi guy to do when gay folks shun him?

Is civil disobedience in the fight for same-sex marriage bad manners?

How can I be out without causing problems for my kids?

How do I come out at work (and keep my job)?

How do you address an invitation to a gay or lesbian couple?

Do I have to call myself “gay” or “bi” even if I don’t like labels?

To out or not to out?

Closeted at work?

How to deal with: “Where did your kids come from?”

Does bad sex doom a relationship?

How to invite “exes” to dinner?

Why does my boyfriend want me to take the HIV test?

What to call my transgender coworker?

Wording for our wedding invitation?

Can a gay or lesbian couple kiss in public?

How to come out to my religious mom?