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Gay Etiquette for Every Situation: Coming Out, Dating, At Work, Weddings, Family, and More

Coming Out

The first test of gay manners – yours and others – here’s a how-to guide >>

Friends & Family

Making gay friends, creating your own family, dealing with the ‘rents >>

Dating & Sex

Pickups and hookups – online, off -- from the bedroom to the backroom >>

Gay Weddings

The skinny on same-sex weddings – attire, vows, thank-yous and more >>

Everyday Manners

Houseguests, nosy neighbors, arranging gay travel, and invitations 101 >>

Gay Families

Adoption, surrogates, parenting, fighting bullying – all the tools you need >>

UPDATED ON 05.14.12

Funerals as Fundraisers?
Q "I recently saw where a memorial service was turned into a fundraiser for a charity. Isn't turning someone's death into a fundraising opportunity rather inappropriate?">>

Straight Talk

UPDATED ON 04.29.12

Friends Don't Text Friends When They Should Call
Q "Is it bad manners to return a phone call with an email, especially to a friend in need??">>

Ask Steven

Who picks up the tab on a first date?

We split it, even Steven - 39.1%

You ask me out, you're buying! - 45.7%

Not I - I'd rather put out than shell out - 2.2%

I always seem to end up paying - 13%

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